oh honey - i'm sorry. have you two thought about coupples counseling so you could work off your mood swings in there instead of at him? would he be willing to do that? sounds like maybe some skills for anger and mood swings are needed - it's one thing to change behaviors with friends - quite another when it is where you live. i understand this totally. might t provide any advice?
keep us posted ok.....?
kep breathing - one thing at a time. you can do this.