Thanks for your reply. I do believe it is mid life crisis. He has confirmed that he is 100% certain that he wants to be on his own and that I should work on moving on from this. I’m trying but seems to be a roller coaster where I have great days and then hit rock botttom with a melt down about twice a week. I’m going to get support from a professional, as I am not naturally a needy person and don’t like losing control like this...appearing desperate when I have my meltdowns.