Has something happened which has changed your mind about working with the sexual violence counsellor? Your GP will have needed your permission to make the referral and you pursued the referral once contact was made, so it seems that working with two practitioners is something which you want or need. All of this contact (GP, therapist, SV worker) is voluntary and you should only continue with it if it works for you. The mess that you have experienced previously will not necessarily be repeated and if it is, you can intervene and take control or suggest better ways of communication. You are not a passive by-stander, you have agency.