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Originally Posted by Sometimes psychotic
Not everyone will Be as understanding as a therapist or your dad....unfortunately people are often self oriented ....they think along the lines of if I have have to do it or if this works for me then it should work for you also. For me I expect basic respect but not agreement on the best course of action.....bf kept telling me to just find a job and not go back to school. I went back to school anyway because you can’t just get a job with a random bachelors now....he was thinking of when he had to change fields and they just trained him....this was of course the eighties lol.
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Yes and that’s always my grave mistake I make... thinking people MIGHT understand and I get proven wrong time and time again. But the few people I know that do understand is why I take chances on people understanding. I just have to go through a lot of BS people to get there. Idk a better way [emoji52]
My mom won’t ever understand and Idk why I can’t get over that. Fiancé understands sometimes but sometimes he is not understanding and gets really frustrated with me and it’s extremely hurtful. He said the reason we have a mouse in the house was because I don’t keep it clean. Which I don’t think that’s it. They were there, along with these roaches, the 3rd day we were in here and it was as clean as it could be I suppose and just otherwise not cluttered. I also ask him tho to clean his plates or use the disposable ones most of the time and he doesn’t listen. He is also messier than me, WAY WAY WAY messier. So idk how I’m the sole proprietor to this mouse being in here or anything else. My dads house as cluttered as it was didn’t have roaches.