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Originally Posted by Have Hope
I don't have enough information on your relationship to provide that much advice. What troubles are you having with him specifically? Has he expressed doubts? If you are fighting more since moving in together, what does that tell you? Either there's an adjustment period between you and you have to work it out together and stop fighting, or it points to an incompatibility. Without more information, it's hard to tell.
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- most of our challenges are.. he wants me to set boundaries with my family because I do a lot for them. I'm always taking care of my nieces and feel guilty if they can't come over when they ask me. I always have to do stuff for my family, drive down to do little things that they could do themselves.
- when we have our talks, he tells me he doesn't have a lot of patience anymore because he's done so much of the heavy lifting. He says he's not forcing me to do any of these things, but that I should trust his plan (like buying a house). I don't have a concrete plan because my family with tell me do what they want. So, as much as I like what he has planned, I can't go along with it.