My T got married and I found out from a Facebook profile picture. I didn’t look at his profile but he kept coming up as a friend suggestion and the picture was very obvious. It upset me that it upset me but it took me several months to bring it up. I’m glad I did because it would have been probably still bothering me. I was also afraid because I wasn’t supposed to know about it but I wasn’t snooping and it wasn’t my fault that it kept popping up. It turned out I wasn’t upset about him getting married but it bothered me that he didn’t tell me. Especially since he would tell me many personal things, he said where he went on vacation and what he did but didn’t mention big thing like that. I knew it was intentional and I still don’t know why he didn’t tell me. But it does not bother me anymore. Of course he’s not obligated to tell me anything but shares things like that now and we talk about it.