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CANDY4339 · Aug 13, 2020 at 07:51 AM

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Originally Posted by bpcyclist

I am not a personality expert, but folks w various issues in that realm do often lie. Narcissist lie to avoid dealing w feeling inadequate. People w borderline may lie to avoid shame. Etc.

What is the context of this lying?

I have a friend who married a man that she says she didnt marry the man she thought she did. He lies about everything. She said even down to putting on a whole different image of himself. But she says when ever she asks him any kind of question he will just lie no matter what the question is. She has caught him so many times in just stupid lies that she says it makes her sick. Why would someone need to lie to a spouse like that. They are not children and should not have to lie about anything especially to each other. Its not like hes a kid and could be spaked or punished for giving a wrong answer to his parent right ? So i just dont get it. Hes not doing anything that he should feel like he cant just give her an honest straight forward answer. Does he want her to not trust anything he says?