Until you totally get fed up with being treated that way & within yourself say "I HAVE HAD ENOUGH" with RESOLUTION, it will be difficult to change. It is really not just about distancing & not having time for them.....it is an INTERNAL decision within yourself to change how you relate to others & decide that saying NO isn't selfish like many women have been brainwashed to think. Yes, it is hard to take a firm stand on anything if we have never been shown by example but some of the best lessons in life are the ones we teach ourselves.....because those are the ones we REALLY learn.
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Leo's favorite place was in the passenger seat of my truck. We went everywhere together like this.
Leo my soulmate will live in my heart FOREVER Nov 1, 2002 - Dec 16, 2018
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