I did pay with a credit card and I very well might dispute the charges.

I'll be careful. I'm close to leaving anyway, so if they respond with something hateful or abusive, I'm going to screen shot a copy of it, and go to officials. I might make a whole anti-cyber bullying campaign out of this.

I'm sorry you went through such a horrible experience...especially when you were looking for help. That is so horrible. People online think they are invincible just because they are behind a screen. And that they can treat someone as less than human without facing consequences. I believe in karma, but, sometimes I just wish there was more justice in this world. I know life is unfair and unkind a lot of the time. I hope the situation with your marriage is resolved at this point and you are away from the abuse.