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How long did you date? Did you ever have issues that were like this? How have you handled disagreements with each other in the past? IMO this is inexcusable. And I believe he is cheating otherwise he wouldnt have stopped talking to you after you confronted him. And this family member, what proof did they have? Were they just trying to stir the pot?
I think you should assume its over. I think you need a lawyer asap. I think you need to take money out of the bank, lock up important documents and items. Once you have guidance from a lawyer, text him that you have seen a lawyer and that further communication should be with the lawyer. Or you can say you had a free consult and are considering filing. If none of that snaps him out of it move forward. At this point its not about saving the marriage. If that happens it happens. But this abrupt change means you need to protect yourself. If he can be that callous and mean to stop talking to you he will have no problem screwing you over financially.
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