Well I m not the best example of a good man...but I can give you some advice from a guys perspective.....get mean....it sounds like he does what he wants without any consequences....and thats not fair....start laying down the law...as men we should not live with out limits....set some limits and some expectations and see how he responds...a good man will understand and want things to work out...a bad one will try to argue that he needs to be free to do what he wants... choose the good one