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Old Aug 14, 2020, 08:35 PM
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Originally Posted by TishaBuv View Post
Don’t get mad at me, but when you mentioned you were forming a close personal relationship with him, I got my spidey sense that there may be trouble coming from it. Gosh, I’ve just seen human nature at its worst, I guess. I was a little surprised nobody here said anything about it as a red flag. Sorry if this upsets you, but you asked for honesty.
I had the same feeling and saw it as a red flag. On the back of my head I thought that his sharing his marital problems and hope discussing her marriage with him will lead to troubles. I thought it would be seen by him as a permission to take it further. I knew he’ll ask or offer or hint to something more at some point. And he sure did

I am known to upset or anger people on here because I speak my mind so I try to keep my mouth shut. So I didn’t say anything then.