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Old Aug 14, 2020, 08:39 PM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
I had the same feeling and saw it as a red flag. On the back of my head I thought that his sharing his marital problems and hope discussing her marriage with him will lead to troubles. I thought it would be seen by him as a permission to take it further. I knew he’ll ask or offer or hint to something more at some point. And he sure did

I am known to upset or anger people on here because I speak my mind so I try to keep my mouth shut. So I didn’t say anything then.
Your gut feeling was 100% correct. I hadn't worked in an office in 7 years. I mainly worked solo for that time. Or a lot of it. I hadn't been in an office for so long, and welcomed relationships with people. I should have known better, but I'm not beating myself up. I chalk it up to a lesson learned.
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