Dont feel to bad i have been told all my life that im to loud. Like im supose to turn my volume control down before i ever speak. Thats like asking a person to raise his hand before he takes a breath. I dont know why my voice comes out so loud. I dont try to be loud it just comes out that volume. But when im told to please lower my voice i want to scream just to let them know now that is me being loud. Sometimes i think maybe i just should stop talking altogether because i certainly dont want to offend anyone. But then i wonder is it that im really to loud or is it that person just being rude?