How is controversial debate helpful to the OP? This isn’t a criminal trial. These exact details are what happened to me, and are the reason I chose to never tell anyone except my best friend when it happened. I put the incident out of my mind for many years. Later, I developed intimacy issues in my marriage. Perhaps this incident did scar me in this way. IDK, perhaps I had mental health issues that I was not aware of. I don’t care who believe me here or not. Sexual assault is not always a clear cut case.

The most important factor for the OP is to explore her feelings and figure out how to move forward in a healthy direction.