I recently had a similar conversation with a friend who was blindsided by her "friends" behavior toward her about a small dilemma in her life. WHAT shocked the hell out of me is her friend is supposed to be a licensed mental health person. The selfish things this girl said wanted me to make a road trip and slap the **** outta her. I talked to her about the dilemma her so called friend practically shamed her for. My thing to you is congrats on taking an initiative on your well being.. You come first.. if you arent well.... you cant be well for anyone or anything else. WE ALL are going through something. One day at a time.. It took me years to be able to admit and submit to opening pandoras box inside me. No regrets. had wonderful Dr. He saved me from myself