A very popular, attention-seeking, and nosy bully, who everyone thinks is very caring and nice, deliberately followed me at our last family gathering and put me down. I never have said or done anything wrong to her, except a couple of guys she likes, liked me and tried to get with me, but I gave them up because I am not into them enough to date them since my divorce. They must have said something to her and now whenever I show up at family gatherings to do something, she somehow dismisses and discredits what I do, and shows everyone how good she is. Btw, she has been single herself for a long time, and tries, but I have noticed that she cannot seem to get anyone. Because of her, I do not want to show up anymore at gatherings and stay away.