This is so tough, I really feel for you. I'm sorry you went through these horrible experiences. Good for you for pursuing legal action and standing up for yourself. No matter what he or that detective might be saying about it. Being insensitive about your religious beliefs and customs looks bad on their part. I know this is really stressful, with everything going on. But please stay strong. Keep turning to your spirituality, and friends for support. I think you can make it through this.