Hi Matt....Welcome to PC

I'm sure hearing that from your fiance was a real kick in the pants and hurt your heart. I'm sorry that happened.

What I think is a good thing is this......if she is having questions, it is far better for her to explore those questions and find the answers now before the wedding takes place. Forcing herself to go through with a wedding when she has questions as to how she really feels would be catamount to a horrible mistake that would have very very difficult ramifications down the road. She might feel trapped, she might lash out, she might up and leave, anything could pop up. Imagine the pain that would be felt at that time!

I know you don't want to loose her.....maybe giving her the space and time she needs to figure out what her heart truly feels and what her heart truly wants will bring you both closer together. I think there is a 50/50 chance here of it going either way. She may also decide that marriage to you at this point is not what she wants. That doesn't necessarily mean that it couldn't happen later on

I give her credit for having the courage to speak up now...rather than later. If she has always been a trustworthy person and you have never doubted what she has expressed before about her feelings....don't doubt her now.....she is telling you she needs some time and space...go with it!

Wishing you both well and hoping everything works out well!


sabby