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Originally Posted by Have Hope
I am NOT victim blaming and I disagree with you. It’s not assault when she said get a condom. That is consent. I understand that others think it’s assault. But I disagree. I said in one of my posts to her that I was NOT blaming her. I simply was pointing out how she played a role. I am not here to argue. People need to stop focusing on ME and anything I’ve said, stop targeting me in this thread and focus on and help the OP instead.
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No one is targeting you. But it is interesting that there is such a disparity on what is and is not considered consent according to the law. I'm sure the OP is already blaming themselves enough, so that's why I said your words are not helpful, if not traumatizing. Regardless, I hope the OP gets the help they most desperately need. I hope you agree with that at least.
OP, if you are in the United States you can call the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 800.656.HOPE (4673). Please take of yourself.