HI artsygirl88. Sorry you are having challenges with credit cards and credit bureau.

One way to prevent credit being established in your name fraudulently is explained here Credit Freeze FAQs | FTC Consumer Information

If you are a AAA member then they have a free credit monitoring that you can sign up for. There are also paid options with this and other credit monitoring services.

If you get any services from Social Security like Medicare, Disability or Social Security, there is an online account you can set up that prevents someone else from doing that. Then you can monitor any activity there. The United States Social Security Administration