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Originally Posted by Open Eyes
I’m sorry this challenge still bothers you like this. That you still feel a need to speak your piece to feel some kind of closure for yourself.
I have experienced this challenge myself being treated horribly when I did not deserve it. Especially when the individual invaded my boundaries and continued to do so. Even smearing me by lying. No letter can change a person like this either. All any letter can do is clarify and confirm to yourself that you are making the right choice by completely distancing from the person.
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You are right. I should take responsibility for the fact I let this unhealthy so-called friendship go on and on. But this has been my experience with narcissists. They vanish...then all of a sudden they pop up...and act like nothing is wrong...like they don't have memories of their abusive ways.
I simply can't wrap my head around how toxic these people are.
But I really need to take more responsibility. If I am being "haunted" by thoughts of her then I am allowing it to happen...instead of keeping busy and improving my life.
Writing letters to her I will never send is a waste of my time.
It's uncomfortable to change. That's my problem. I am stressed out and wish I had a few good friends instead of all these toxic people I have to keep away from.
Toxic people are the worse.
Thanks for listening and responding, OE.
I need to battle against thinking about her.