You originally said that you can't see yourself getting past losing your wife and house and seeing a future for yourself, and yet here you are! I don't mean this sarcastically at all, but you DID get past losing your wife and house. I don't mean to sound cold, but she left you. You had to move out. You mentioned some type of financial loss with your wife as well. Yet, here you are! You may feel alone. You may feel like you have no future, but you got through the initial separation. You got through your meeting with her over finances. You may not feel any better. You may not think you are moving forward because of these losses, but you are!

I had to hit rock bottom before I woke up. I lost everything, too. My family, friends, reputation, finances, all destroyed. I lived in hell handing my children over to my ex-wife and her abusive boyfriend. All that was pure pain and sadness. Yet here I am! Here to tell someone else my story and I am not alone, because I am talking to you!