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Originally Posted by Open Eyes
It’s very hard when you have been nice and caring with someone and the individual behaves so badly and gets mean like that. It’s understandable you feel betrayed and angry.
I don’t think you would get a true why. As a matter of fact if you did express your anger it would only be used against you. After all a nice person would have never behaved that way to begin with.
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In some ways I think it is better to have one last big fight and get it out in the open. I prefer that. Then you know what the other person is thinking.
I had a friend once who make me follow her out to the woods in the back of her house then she started to scream at me. At the time I really almost started laughing. She was saying insane stuff. It didn't bother me she was screaming. It seemed idiotic. I am not really a screamer.
I just listened...went back to the house...informed my then husband we were leaving...and that was that.
Personally I prefer that over this sneaky, stealthy, secretive stuff. It's cowardly. I kept calling her on her phone and she wouldn't answer...and I thought that was...just cowardly and wimpy.
The person who screamed at me in the woods. It was strange...but she dated my brother and he treated her very poorly. He left his hat and some other stuff and she created a big bonfire and burned all his stuff. So I think she was taking it out on me and this particular brother of mine does really treat women poorly...so it was kind of understandable.