Hi throwawaypetals. Welcome to psych central.

From what you shared this guy is deeply disturbed and someone that it’s best to distance from and stop all communication with him. It’s not your fault or responsibility to fix his problems. He is clearly a very disordered and disturbed person.

I am very sorry you experienced sexual assault and there have been individuals that chose not to believe you. You know the truth and I hope you reported it.

You sound too trusting and niave and it’s important to pay attention to red flags that mean another person is not safe and important to distance from.

I am sure others will offer you support here at PC.