I like a lot about her even her quirks. She is good with children, has a great sense of humor, we have good physical chemistry, she can be very calming, generous and independent. Our families get along. Our kids get along. We have the same religious beliefs.

So, ya, she just happens to trigger my insecurities and is in complete denial of her behavior. This covid business has given me a little break from the behavior since we don't get to socialize as often. It's mostly online now, so I quit facebook. I try to focus on personal growth while I have the chance.