I'm not the type to hold a grudges or anything. I want people to enjoy their life as best as possible.... I forgive my mom... I forgave my dad who I thought was the best to cut contact with. No ill will... just can't be around their lies and what they did to me and my siblings as babies and kids. Hell I forgive my mom's ex who molested and rape me at the age of 3 up until I was 7. I forgave my uncle Tim who threatened me with knifes being high as **** on crack and beat my aunt at the time. I forgive my uncle Tom how was physically aggressive and witnessed him strangle my cousin of the ground because he didn't drink all his milk. He at one point grab me by the hair and threw me on the ground. Denied his daughter and told her that she better not be around my grandparents or he'll kill her.

I guess my point is... I forgive with that level of abuse and mistrust I can forgive anyone and try not to let it bother me. If I don't forgive you... it's more so me vs... you.