Hi, Matt, welcome to PsychCentral. You recently got engaged and found someplace not booked to have the wedding in August? That is fast. How long have you two been together? My husband and I got engaged Memorial Day and married in late September after having been together 5 years. It was hard to get all the wedding stuff planned.

I see your avatar shows a couple good looking young boys :-) Are they your children? I don't know what your situation is like; have you no idea at all why your fiance is suddenly feeling pressured?

Is your finance living in your space or you in hers or what is your living situation? It can be hard and take time to adjust to other people in our lives and to suddenly be making it permanent; especially if either of you had a previous relationship that might not have been good or ended well, that could take some extra time.

In the 5 years my husband and I were together before we married; most of the time we lived in the same apartment complex, directly across the parking lot from one another :-) I actually lived in his apartment unless he was out of town but had my own and we entertained my parents there :-) and my cat lived there, etc. Can you afford a house or an apartment near where you all are living now? That might make you feel a bit better and still keep the door open to continuing the relationship.