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Old Aug 21, 2020, 05:10 PM
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Because there is nothing to forgive, no mistake to forgive because you didn’t do anything wrong. You were the victim of abuse. We tend to make excuses to defend the abusers by saying that it was our fault that they abused us, because the fact that people we care about abusing us for no reason is unbearable. So we make those “reasons”, we try to make sense of their behaviors using a wrong logic to protect our feelings. I see you as a strong person, the only thing you lack is a correct type of therapy and supportive people around you. If I can recommend, try to listen to some podcasts about how to heal a childhood trauma and how to love yourself. Be your own best friend, parent your inner child, be someone you wished were there when you were a child
I find myself parenting in a way with my friends kids... I feel brokenhearted because the kids got taken away. Things are said about me and my friend that wasn't true because there's no way I'd threaten the kids. I loved them as my own... I feel responsible in a way because the whole thing about the house being dirty. The youngest was crying when they took her. She was like "don't let them take me away"... I care for those kids. I care so much for them. I love those kids and the hurt from the separation and not being able to see the kids for over a month is hard.
Hugs from:
12AM, bpcyclist, Desoxyn, SlumberKitty, Sometimes psychotic
Thanks for this!
bpcyclist