Here is a snippet from something I just read - a review of a book on grief:

"But the book’s biggest strength is that it tells the truth about something that everyone experiences that for decades our society has gotten entirely wrong. She writes:"

“But it certainly seems time to move beyond our current habit of using untested theories to create unnecessarily lengthy and agonizing models for loss, ones that I believe have created more fear of and anxiety about the experience.” (p. 197-198)

Here is the source: I Am Not Silent: Our Zoloft and Depression Story | Psych Central Reviews