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Originally Posted by Bill3
A few things I'm wondering about:
What would be wrong with sex on Sunday mornings?
Sex just isn't worth doing if her attitude is less than ideal?
Maybe the tissues help her feel more willing to participate?
Sex just isn't worth doing without afterplay the way you want it?
How important are the hotels--6 weeks out of 8 years--in the broader scheme of things?
Did anything in particular happen or start 12 years ago such that sex got so much less frequent?
What does your therapist say about the situation?
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Nothing wrong with sex on Sunday morning. But other times would be nice. And more often than six times a year would be very nice.
Attitude doesn稚 have to be ideal. But I don稚 want her to treat as a chore that she just needs to get over with.
The tissues make it look as if we are doing something dirty. But I壇 be okay with it if the other problems were fixed.
Afterplay doesn稚 have to be my way, or in any particular form. But having her jump out of bed immediately after, get dressed, and go about her day is a real turnoff.
I hear what your saying about the hotels. But I always thought going away on vacation is an especially good time to rekindle your romance. Especially on a romantic river cruise.
Maybe the change 12 years ago was menopause..
My therapist understands my frustration. She says we need couples counseling (with a different therapist, of course). But my wife refuses.