Hey ziggy....my husband is 21 years younger than me! Even though our marriage is ending...it was not for lack of love, compassion, appreciation, passion or that we didn't enjoy many of the same things. We got along great for the most part and had our trek not been so dang difficult and hard to keep the hope going, I believe we would have had a wonderful life together.
Going out to lunch is not a huge thing....time to get to know one another more....become friends.....discover likes and dislikes. If nothing else...you may end up with a great friend

sabby