imo, i dont think everyone should have to change their widgets because one or 2 people are triggered or offneded by them. i kind of feel like, 1. you will never get over your trigger or your fear if you dont face it, and 2. if its that big of a deal.... ignore it. thats why i try to stay out of the abuse forum because i dont feel like people should have to censor what they say because of my bad memories... so i stay away.