Sounds to me like the covid time warp has just hit you. Before, attending to your friend kept you on a schedule, even thru the beginning of covid, when things shut down for many others of us.

I have my groceries and my precriptions delivered. I really dont leave my apartment, except to walk my rent check to the leasing office, or pick up my mail once a week or so, and take out the garbage. I dont own a car so i dont have that to worry about. I just have my hoard that i try to make a dent in. That ive been trying to make a dent in all my life, it seems. Finally, i have reached a feeling of no deadlines, no hurrying, and no one saying, "but can you KEEP it cleaned up?!" Obviously the answer is no, i cant.