I guess this shows that S isnt much of a threat for me: there have been a couple times when I disagreed with my brother about family matters and he is very critical. He is type A and the superstar of the family, so it's hard to do affirmations when I compare myself to him. I try to not to make comparisons, or at least choose someone more worthy for a comparison.
He gives orders like "dont bring up certain things, dont call me, always email."
On the two occasions when he really got to me and I was mulling things over, it always seems like it would be a lot more trouble to make a plan to call it quits than to just keep trying. So, I conclude Im not really in much danger. I hope I would tell my t.