i have an issue when a nacissist threatens me to get their way i give them what they want so they dont hurt me for example i dated a woman named lilith and she wanted her way all the time she was a narcissist when she wanted something and i said know she acted pretty violent to get her way she was so sacry that i always gave her her way cause i was terrified of her anyways how do i stop giving narcissits their way cause im tired of re inventing myself and comprimisimg my life for them out of faer