I'm a heterosexual female who has a crush on my (also heterosexual) female therapist. The only thing that has helped me is to talk about it openly with her and try to understand where the feelings are coming from. However, I know that's not always possible to do depending on your comfort level with being honest about these feelings and how your T is likely to take them. I'm blessed with a very open minded, unflappable, accepting T but not everyone is. Please be reassured you're definitely not alone as it's very common to feel like this about a T regardless of gender or sexual orientation.