Dear SolarExpose,

I am so sorry that this is happening. Do you think it would help to bring a professional psychologist into this? In complicated situations with complex family dynamics, sometimes a professional psychologist can help sort things out and give really insightful and wise advice. I wish I knew what else to say. The whole situation is really distressing. So very sorry I could not be helpful to you in this! Hopefully others will will prove more helpful to you.

Sincerely yours, Yao Wen