I hope things work for you ive been co- dependent my self . At the time I didnt see how my bipolar was hurting my wife and we were so co-dependent we lose each other it takes time and alot of work but im sure you can work it out .

Blind melon sings this song about bipoalr and being co-dependent .He wrote for his girlfreind who was bipolar and very co-dependent on him and in the end he finds that just as in love and co-dependent for her . songs called ~no rain~