Hi-

I am so hurt and feel very devalued. I was dating someone over 8 years. There are many facets to this story. He cheated on me last summer & I accidentally guessed at it..I was right, he was shocked I found out. I told him pick her or me, if it’s is me, our reconciliation required certain things-STD Tests, no contact with this woman, etc. At first he told me there was no sex, but admitted to it a month later.

We were trying to reconcile fall 2019-March 2020.. he stated he had zero contact with this woman. He was at my house for many weekends...they were tough, I was so hurt that he cheated and betrayed me.

Fast forward To July, I look on his Facebook profile and there is a pic of him & the woman he cheated on me with...no text, no phone call, no voicemail, nothing....We are in our 50s....

I do not understand why someone would behave this way.

Opinions please. Thanks