Been there, done that. Emotionally and mentally abusive people DO NOT CHANGE. Get out and get on with your life.

Don't be fooled by "reforms". They are a temporary tool to get you in line with what they want. To suck you back in. Like a Hoover. That's why they call it "hoovering".

It's ALWAYS about what they want. And they'll do or say *anything* to make that happen. Am I right?

My heart goes out to you. I know the pain and conflicting emotions all too well.