Dear FridayT,

I am so terribly sorry that you are in this unhappy situation. Although I would not want to trespass on the uniqueness of your situation, I think I can say that I have a bit of understanding since I was in a similar situation once. Just reading your post brought back so many vivid but unhappy memories. It is utterly heartbreaking what you are going through and my heart goes out to you!

Sincerely yours, Yao Wen