Hi Friday everything you posted is proof that you have been in a toxic relationship that is very unhealthy for you.
Actually it doesn’t even matter what personality disorder this individual has. There is nothing you can do to change his ongoing toxic that you continue to be a victim of. You have to make the decision to put an end to your being subjected to such an unhealthy individual.
You must decide that you deserve better. And you should seek therapy to not only help you with that but to help you choose healthier relationships from now on.