WA in a way it sounds like you benefit from other people running your life ie teachers etc.....most people aren’t going to do that for you. I’m not sure what’s up with your indecision but maybe therapy can help with that? For me when I started having adhd I was the same way...I would try something and then the next minute try something else....what worked for me were omega 3 supplements, mostly DHA.....I believe you mentioned trying them? They certainly don’t work for everyone though.

Can you make a list of possibilities then do some coin toss magic? It’s not what you think though...the coin toss will tell you your gut reaction....if you get heads and are kinda like hmmm not happy then you know not to do that thing. If you’re happy with th outcome do it.