Hugs Molinit-

I agree, he is a coward. If he told me, what was I going to do? Probably state some nasty truths or ask him some difficult questions, but in the end....he still was going to be with her, or was already with her. Maybe he cannot face his true self.

Last year when I learned of the cheating I said to him, “ I never thought you would cheat...your father cheated on your mother, and you saw how much it hurt her. (His mother was a very nice woman & treated him well). You are no better than your backstabbing father, whom you cannot stand...so take a look in the mirror and tell me what you see”.

I have no trouble looking myself in the mirror...I have a few mental problems-depression, anxiety, and CPTSD- and I am a good person with a great heart...

I am crying now because the kind people whom have answered this post, have treated me with more kindness and respect than he did...and I am a stranger to you all..

Hugs