It sounds like your T is comfortable with what you told her. So I agree with Lonely that you should explore this with her, where the feelings are coming from. I've dealt with this before (though for male T--I'm a heterosexual female), and it can be difficult. But it helps to realize where it's coming from. Also, that your T in real life most likely isn't the person she is in the room with you. Or at least the relationship isn't the same as what you'd have if you knew her outside of therapy--as then you'd be dealing with her issues, too, and her faults and shortcomings. But I'd talk to her about it.