I just want to say that I'm very sorry for what you're going through.
And I can relate. I also feel that my husband tapped out of our marriage about a year or two ago. That's why it was easier for him to leave the marriage.
He used to prefer playing online games into the early hours of the morning and coming to bed very late. So many times I had to ask him when he's coming to bed.
It's hard seeing her stuff (she should come fetch it) and the places she used to occupy. And it will be for a while. But I think everyone on here gave some good advice when they told you to practise self-care. I try to exercise and to focus on doing things that I enjoy. But it's also okay to feel sad sometimes. I think it's all part of the healing process to allow yourself to feel those feelings.
Your cat a helpful companion. Better than being alone. I have my dog and it helps to have her here.
I wish you all the best.
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