ditto this post. it is so degrading
I often wonder if people who say this type of thing are just so wrapped up in their own life, and their own problems, they simply don't care

that: or simply don't know what to say so just shrug it off. it'ss not right, but a possibility

I find it really hard to accept that so many people are that shallow, but, this is the world we are living in. it's to be expected (again, not right, but.)