I am sorry I saw this a little late. I consider you a friend and I would miss you if you weren't here. You have helped me through so much and through many a hard time. I think you have every right to not want to face that man in court, but I know you can do it. I am so sorry that your father was so mean to you.
I care and I am here for you. Please understand that YOU deserve help, too..
BJ