So I know therapy is like a mirroring process usually, like if I sit a certain way T tends to shift that way too, or if I'm sad he tried to look sad etc..but does anyone have experience of the opposite?

Lately I've been feeling like it's going the other way. Like when I've turned up devastated and felt far away from him, he has seemed extra kind about things and pulled me close (not literally)...or when I've felt really close to him and poured my heart out, he's pulled back from me and not mirrored those feelings.

Have I really messed it up after 4 and a half years? Anyone know what's going on or had this happen?